The Cost of dreams

God has his own ways of playing with us. He made it so easy for everyone to dream. Its very easy to conceive a dream in your heart, in your mind – and its equally difficult to make it a reality.

Sometimes I wonder was this God’s way to humor himself as he watches us trying to do all sorts of things in order to pursue our dreams.

To add to this, there is dreams of others. Others who are part of your life. Others who are your friends and family. Everyone has their own dreams, and when we live in a world of interdependence, it becomes even harder to fulfill your own dreams and make sure that you help your friends and family realize their dreams as well.

Balance is difficult to find. Things that you do, things that you say in order to protect others can be thought of as your lack of interest in their dreams. It is such a tough decision to make sometimes when someone asks your opinion on their dreams, knowing that there is a direct conflict of interest in your dreams with their plans. What do you do in that situation? My motto has always been to be honest  – Honesty is the best policy. But I’ve come to learn that not always. Sometimes, being honest can have its own negative repercussions. specially when it comes to dreams.

Dreams are personal. No one has a right to crush other people’s dream. If you can not help them realize their dreams, don’t crush them. If you can help – great. If not – shut up.

Speaking too much has got me into trouble so many times, i’ve just stopped saying things now a days. so what if you have an opinion, there is a time and place for everything.

anyways, I know there was no sense of this whole cribbing, but just wanted to let my heart out.

see you around.

 

 

November 15, 2014   Posted in: Entrepreneurship, Family

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